CM 156: Lydia Denworth on the Science of Friendship

What actions would you take if you knew how important friendships were for your health?

Most of us recognize that friendships play an important role in our lives. Yet few of us realize how crucial they are for our health and well-being.

In this interview, Lydia Denworth, author of the book, Friendship: The Evolution, Biology, and Extraordinary Power of Life’s Fundamental Bond, shares fascinating research on the science of friendship. She argues that, “Friendship is as important as diet and exercise for both our psychological and physical health.”

In our conversation, Lydia explains ways of assessing whether our friendships are healthy. She also describes the neuroscience of friendship. For example, she discusses a remarkable study where researchers looked at participants’ brain patterns while watching snippets of different videos. Their analysis yielded a surprising finding, as Lydia explains, “Just by looking at the brain processing, they could predict who was friends with who.”

Lydia Denworth is a contributing editor for Scientific American, writes the Brain Waves blog for Psychology Today, and is the author of two previous books, Toxic Truth and I Can Hear You Whisper. Her work has appeared in publications that include, The Atlantic, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal.

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